>>2872This may be evading the larger question of, how does one make programming friends?
To make rock climbing friends, you go to the local gym.
To make yoga friends, you go to yoga class.
Paint balling, skateboarding – usually there's a designated location.
For more niche interests, I think there are local clubs one can search for.
But I wouldn't know about programming.
I guess people usually make these friends through their career, or from an evangelical branch online (Rust, FSF, Lisp)
Do these friends have to be local, or anywhere in the world?
etc
Personally, instant messaging is stressful, so I think the ideal is someone local, or voice calls maybe.
Will I take the effort to go find some local friends or a voice community?
No, because they can also rob you of your energy depending on what's in the group.
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